One vertex per element, one color per generator, with an edge from x to x·s.
(9,10)(11,14)(12,15)(13,18)(16,21)(17,20)(19,23)(22,24)(26,31)(27,34)(33,40)(35,36) involution — undirected(1,2)(3,4)(5,7)(6,8)(9,10,14,11)(12,17,20,15)(13,16,21,18)(19,23,24,22)(25,26,30,31)(27,32,34,29)(28,33,38,40)(35,37,36,39)(1,3)(2,6)(4,7)(5,8)(10,11)(15,17)(16,18)(22,23) involution — undirected(1,3)(2,4)(5,8)(6,7)(9,11,14,10)(12,17,20,15)(13,18,21,16)(19,23,24,22)(25,27)(26,32)(28,36)(29,31)(30,34)(33,39)(35,38)(37,40)(1,4,5,6)(2,3,7,8)(9,12,14,20)(10,15,11,17)(13,19,21,24)(16,22,18,23)(25,28,30,38)(26,33,31,40)(27,35,34,36)(29,39,32,37)(1,3)(2,4)(5,8)(6,7)(9,13)(10,16)(11,18)(12,19)(14,21)(15,22)(17,23)(20,24)(25,29,30,32)(26,27,31,34)(28,37,38,39)(33,36,40,35)A Cayley diagram is a choice, not a fact about the group. Another drawing of this group — in a book, or on a different generating set — may look nothing like this one.