One vertex per element, one color per generator, with an edge from x to x·s.
(9,10,14,18)(11,12,16,15)(13,21,22,17)(19,23,24,20)(25,26)(27,31)(28,35)(29,30)(32,36)(33,40)(34,38)(37,39)(1,2)(3,7)(4,5)(6,8)(26,30)(28,36)(31,38)(33,37) involution — undirected(2,5)(6,7)(9,11)(10,15)(12,18)(13,19)(14,16)(17,23)(20,21)(22,24)(25,27,29,34)(26,31,30,38)(28,33,36,37)(32,39,35,40)(2,5)(6,7)(9,11)(10,12)(13,19)(14,16)(15,18)(17,20)(21,23)(22,24)(25,28,29,36)(26,32,30,35)(27,33,34,37)(31,39,38,40)(1,2)(3,6)(4,5)(7,8)(9,12)(10,16)(11,18)(13,20)(14,15)(17,24)(19,21)(22,23)(25,27)(26,31)(28,37)(29,34)(30,38)(32,40)(33,36)(35,39) involution — undirected(1,3)(2,6)(4,8)(5,7)(9,13,14,22)(10,17,18,21)(11,19,16,24)(12,20,15,23)(25,26)(27,31)(28,32)(29,30)(33,39)(34,38)(35,36)(37,40)A Cayley diagram is a choice, not a fact about the group. Another drawing of this group — in a book, or on a different generating set — may look nothing like this one.